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1. Are you still angry and resentful towards your ex? 2. Do you dislike who you are? Do you feel lonely and desperate without a relationship? 3. Are you still in love with your ex? 4. Do you feel like you have nothing valuable to offer someone? If you answered "yes" to even one of these questions, you probably aren't ready for a new relationship. Perhaps you need more time to recover sufficiently from your relationship breakdown before you try again. If you suspect that you aren't ready for love, work on improving your relationship with yourself first. When you can honestly answer "no" to each of these questions, you'll be ready. Meeting strategy # 1: develop a hobby The first thing to learn is there is no one right or wrong strategy for finding someone. If you think long and hard about it, you'll realize that you actually have limitless opportunities to meet people. Try something you've never done before -- or something you used to enjoy before your marriage. For instance, perhaps you loved hiking or biking, but stopped going because your ex didn't enjoy those activities. Or maybe you loved to dance, but your ex had two left feet. Taking some dance lessons is a great way to meet new people with a similar interest, and boost your self-confidence. You'll probably make some great new friends along the way as you become more involved with a variety of activities. After all, a person with interests is automatically interesting to others who share the same hobbies. Go places where the sort of people you'd like to meet might be -- whether that's a dance club, a wine tasting club or a scuba diving club. But remember that meeting someone is not a life-or-death mission: it should be fun. Lighten up, go out to a place or event you'll enjoy, and take a friend with you the first time, if you feel nervous. Do whatever it takes to make yourself comfortable, and start today!
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