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"I took a survey among my friends who are
married or in a serious relationship," says Diane, a single professional
who works for an insurance association. "There are many ways to meet your
soul mate, but none of them involve sitting at home doing nothing."
Still have no idea where to find single people? No problem. These suggestions
are sure to put you where you want to be -- with other great singles!
If you're shy, try the approaches that scare you the least to start with.
Bookstores. Select an interesting book, then approach someone
and ask them if they've ever read it or know the author's work.
Single Parent Support Groups. If you're a single parent, this
is a great way to share your concerns, get helpful ideas, and meet other
like-minded single parents. See "Divorce Support Services" on page 16
for some suggestions.
Coffee Houses. A casual and popular spot for singles these
days. Sit down with a copy of Divorce Magazine (it's a great conversation
piece!) and enjoy the exotic blends. Some coffee houses offer poetry
readings and live music as well.
Parks. A great place to walk or picnic. Check with your local
department of parks and recreation and get on their mailing list. They
sponsor some great activities, like dancing in the park, arts, and craft
shows. And walking a cute, friendly dog is a great way to meet people
-- they'll come to you!
Video stores. Are you into comedy? Or maybe you need a little
drama in your life. Find someone interesting in the oldies section.
Reminisce with him or her about how they just don't make movies like
that anymore, then discuss your favorite classics.
Commuting. Taking the train or bus from
work doesn't have to be boring. Sit next to someone you find interesting,
start up a conversation, and make the trip home an enjoyable one.
As you begin looking into one or more of these possibilities, you'll
discover more opportunities than you could have imagined to meet other
single people in your area. Take a good look at the bulletin boards
on the internet and listing section of your local newspapers and magazines
for singles events that might interest you.
The opportunities for you to reach out and become involved in absorbing
and enjoyable activities -- to keep on learning and growing, to do some
good, to make new friends, and perhaps even find new love -- are all
around you. All you have to do is seize them.
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