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When the date ends badly Frank: There was one part where I met a girl. But it turned out
that the girl... Peter: ...was a guy? (Laughs) Frank: No, but I should have been careful because, sexually,
this girl was a real disaster, a block of ice. It was a total wipeout. Peter: You told her that? Frank: Of course not. The worst thing for me is breaking up. What I can do well, like any other guy, is to run away. I waited two weeks before calling her. Two weeks is a long time, and I hoped that she would've understood. But no: I had to say something, I can't remember what. I must have been very mean. Anthony: But if you didn't promise to see her again, if it was a
one-night stand, you didn't have to say anything! Frank: For me, it was clear, but I was ambiguous with her. Peter: I think that the only solution to ambiguity is to run
away, to disappear immediately.
Anthony: The worst thing to do is to disappear and reappear. I
did that to a girl for at least two months, because I was having problems
with my ex. Today, I torture myself when I think about it. I was really
horrible. I saw that girl only when I wanted to have sex. I'd leave by
saying, "I'll call you" and, of course, I had no intention of calling her.
But I came back when I needed her. She didn't say anything, wouldn't show
any feeling, and I was taking advantage of that. In my mind, she wasn't my
girlfriend, just someone to score with. I don't know what it was for her.
And I didn't want to know either. I know, it was a low thing to do. Max: Girls can be jerks too. I remember meeting a 25-year-old
girl who was really sexy, and who kept on flirting with me in my
bookstore. She was using really hot innuendos and her eyes were shining
with pleasure; she also used very sensual silences. On that same night,
she was over to my place, but there she acted in a hussy way, like she
wanted to have sex, then changed her mind. She was acting like a
woman-child and wanted to hear sweet nothings. She was a fake sexy women
who lacked self-esteem and wasn't comfortable with her sexual drive. I
left without any explanation. I came back an hour later. She understood
the message and was already gone. Frank: My biggest flop was the time when I missed an opportunity
with a really great girl. The very first time I met her, we had
everything: the stares, the smiles, the feelings. Like usual, I pretended
not to see anything, but I also did nothing. Maybe I was waiting for her
to make the first move or to flirt with me. Anyway, we became friends and
it's now too late. Michael: Why? Frank: Because I told her about the first time I met her and
about my regrets, and it changed nothing. It sucks. For the first time in
my life, I fell in love and even felt jealous. For me, it was a meaningful
date filled with love but, for her, it was nothing. Michael: In my case, I did a horrible thing when I was 16. I
slept with virgin who was in love with me. But I didn't have any feeling
for her, and I broke up with her the next day. She didn't handle it well.
It was a lesson well learned. I understood how mixing love and sex could
be dangerous and that I had to be careful about human relations.
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