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TIME AVAILABLE FOR YOUR CHILD |
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Another
important variable to consider for determining custody and timeshare
issues is how much time you realistically have to spend with your child.
You have a life, too. You probably need to work and have many other
responsibilities besides being a parent.
Some careers require a
parent to be away from home for long blocks of time, such as those of
police, sheriffs, military personnel, or fire fighters. Other people must
travel for business, such as airline crews or people who go on location to
make movies. These professional factors must be considered when
determining a realistic timeshare of the child. Other people need to have
flexibility for mental or physical health reasons. There are diseases
that, when in an active stage, make it very difficult for a parent to give
a child proper care. Some diseases go into remission and enable a parent
to be more available during those times.
Another point to consider
is that of types of time. Daytime and nighttime hours with a child are not
equal in quality, nor are weekdays and weekends. During a week, most
parents are at work, the child is at school and they only see each other
for a short time in the morning and a few hours at night. Many people have
longer blocks of time available for a child on a weekend, while other
parents, such as people who sell real estate, must work on weekends.
One Size Does Not Fit All
In order to be realistic
about what kind of timeshare to ask for, you must determine how much time
(and when) you have available for your child. A young child needs to be
with a responsible person 24 hours a day. If the child is not with you,
where will the child be? Will the child be in school or daycare? If so,
for how long? What provisions for childcare do you have in place?
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