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Born to Shop -- Smart
spending habits to share with your child Teach your child the value of a dollar
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Family Matters Archive
Spending
money is one of the easiest things to do. Spending wisely is not quite as
easy. We've all bought things that we've looked at later and thought, now
why in heaven did I buy that? The cookies smelled great, but didn't taste
quite so wonderful, and the extra calories weren't worth it. That new suit
looked way better in the store; in the light of reality, the colour does
nothing for me. That new jukebox seemed like a great idea at the time; we
just don't have anywhere to put it!
When the purchases are small,
it's easy to overlook the real cost. Try adding up all those quarters
spent on trivial purchases and you'll soon find dollars - even hundreds of
dollars - spent, with little to show.
Smart shopping takes time
and involves some research. If a friend has the latest CD and you think
you have to have it, too, borrow it first and have a listen. If you like
it as much as you thought you would, shop around for the best price.
The same holds true for items you see advertised. First, check out
how the product actually looks, feels and smells in the store. Next, think
about what else you could buy for the same amount of money (a
relative-value check). Finally, compare prices to see if the same
products, or a very similar product, is less expensive in another store.
Patience is a difficult concept for children. However, the habit
of instant gratification is one that is extremely difficult to break even
after we move into adulthood. While not every purchase requires deep
thought and analysis - if you want that three-dollar book and you have the
money, go ahead and buy it - careful consideration should be given to
buying anything that costs more than a few dollars.
Your child
will take most of her cues from you when it comes to learning how to shop
wisely. Remembering that the world is your classroom, you should use
opportunities when you are shopping together to help your child unravel
the mysteries of shopping. Here are some ideas:
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